Last week a friend of a friend messaged me to tell me that she had found my boyfriend on a dating app. She screen-grabbed his profile, and my heart dropped when I saw a photo I had taken of him. I asked him about it and he said he was embarrassed (damn right) and upset. He said it was a “blip” and thinks he did it for validation. I asked to see the app and scrolled through messages — he hadn’t answered any of them, which somehow makes it better but it’s still so not OK! We have been together for a little more than two years and live together. Do I give him another chance or do I leave?
I’ve seen these men out