5 Top Sex Trends for 2023 – Man of Many
Just as the fashion and beauty industries notice various trends coming in each year, so too does the sexual wellness industry. We can observe different sexual behaviours, interests and technology come into popularity each year, reflecting where our mindset as a collective is. Overall, we tend to be getting more and more open and expressive when it comes to sexuality these days and more people are willing to explore their sexual side in new and interesting ways. As a sex educator, there are several themes I’ve noticed gaining popularity in the sexual wellness space lately and some I predict will get more attention throughout 2023. These are my predictions.
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Sex toys and pleasure tools for women have been popular for quite some time now, but until recently many have assumed that sex toys were exclusively for women and not men. We’ve seen a rise in the amount and variety of male sex toys on the market in recent years, and it looks like this is just the beginning. From the classic fleshlights to cock rings, butt plugs and anal stimulators, there’s more choice than ever before. Thankfully, many men are realising how much more pleasure is available to them when they include devices into the bedroom and explore more erogenous zones.
2. Pegging
Speaking of anal, more and more people are taking the step to reverse the roles and try being penetrated by their partners with the aid of a strap-on. Popularised by sex columnist Dan Savage, the term pegging typically refers to the act of a cis-woman having anal sex with a straight cis-man while wearing a strap-on dildo. Studios show that around 67% of men will participate in giving anal sex, but not receive it. In 2023, that figure looks set to change.
Despite the male equivalent to the G-Spot being located in the prostate (which is accessible via the anus), a surprising amount of straight men have been resistant to anal penetration in the past due to the connotation that anal = gay. But, as we’re all growing to learn that certain sexual acts do not define your sexuality, many men are choosing to prioritise their own pleasure over outdated beliefs. It’s time to find your P-Spot, fellas!
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3. Open Relationships Dynamics
The past few years have seen a closer examination of monogamy and traditional relationship structures, with many people opening up to explore new dynamics in dating and partnerships. Many people have tried exploring open relationships, polyamory and other styles of non-monogamy with varying results. People are realising that there are so many different ways to be in relationships that are vastly different to what we’ve been raised with.
With open relating comes a need to level-up your communication skills, which is a huge plus. For those already in relationships, swinging …….
